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“Hi everyone. My boyfriend & I are still having a lil problem with sex. He can enter me (it still hurts some) but once he is sliding back. It hurts a lot. I’m not sure what I could do to help this out. He was thinking using a dildo to help me practice so my vagina can get use to the feeling of his penis going in me. I’m still using the dilator in the meantime too. Do you guys have any other advice or suggestions?”
Hi Christine. This happened to my husband and I in the beginning too. To help, we used the largest sized dilator (Pure Romance brand) and imitated sex. We inserted and removed several times (in the thrusting motion) as well as moved it from side to side. We liberally used a ton of lubricant and the more we did this, the more comfortable it got. I hope this helps.
What other tips do you have for early intercourse ladies?